He thinks he is blessed but wife not feeling him

Dear Pastor,

I am writing on behalf of a friend. We grew up together and attended the same school. He married my best friend. She was always a girl who liked men.

My friend told me that when he met her, he was surprised to find out that although she was very slim, and was still very slim, her vagina was so large. They have been married for seven and a half months and she told him that he needs to do something because she is not feeling him. And she likes to “feel” a man when they are having sex. They did not have sex before they got married.

This is the first time any girl has ever told him that they are not feeling him because he does not have a small penis. He does not want to leave her, but at the same time, he cannot deal with her. He got married because he wanted to settle down. That is why he is talking to me and trying to get out of me if I know why her private part is so large.

L.H

Dear L.H,

You have said that you know that this man’s wife used to keep lots of men. So, you are insinuating that it is likely that she is ‘stretched out.’ I do not believe that you should get involved with this man and his wife’s bedroom business.

Many women have written to me about their men, complaining that their vagina is too large. Some men have cursed their women. And, I say to these women that there are exercises that they can do to firm up their vagina. Nothing can embarrass a woman more than to hear her man say that she is too large, and that having sex with her is just a waste of time.

And when it comes to a man, it is a very embarrassing for a woman to tell her man that he is no good, he is not firm enough or strong enough to make the sex enjoyable.

Please, tell this man to encourage his wife to go to see a gynaecologist and have the gynaecologist tell her how to strengthen the muscles of her vagina. A woman does not need to be ashamed to talk to her husband about these things. And a man does not have to be ashamed to tell his woman that she needs to tighten up.

This man friend of yours, I am sure that he was aware that he was not marrying a virgin. So he should not be surprised if she did not feel very tight when they got married and started to have sex.

Before I go, let me also say that for the men who feel that they want their women to be extremely tight, the women should also discuss with their gynaecologist this method of having surgery to tighten up their vagina. Some women are crazy enough to spend money to do these operations to please their men.

Pastor